Hi, unfortunately I haven’t been able to get this to work. Here are the contents of my bp-custom file.
Sorry if this is a duplicate, not sure if the code would have been received because I didnt use the `.

<?php

add_filter( 'bp_auto_friendship_pro_enable_on_user_register', '__return_true' );

/**
 * Modify default tab.
 */
function buddydev_modify_default_tab() {

	if ( ! is_user_logged_in() || bp_is_my_profile() || ! bp_is_active( 'friends' ) ) {
		return;
	}

        // If both are friends set default tab to profile otherwise activity.
	if ( friends_check_friendship( bp_loggedin_user_id(), bp_displayed_user_id() ) ) {
		define( 'BP_DEFAULT_COMPONENT', 'connections' );
	} else {
		define( 'BP_DEFAULT_COMPONENT', 'profile' );
	}
}

add_action( 'bp_setup_globals', 'buddydev_modify_default_tab', 15 );

FYI – the auto connect users is working correctly. it is the default tab to display if two people are connected that I can’t figure out.

Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks, Matt

Ok, thanks so much. Just to be sure, what php file should this be added to?