Thank you Brajesh but I change my mind for removing the texts. one last thing; can you please tell me how to reorder the primary nave items? and where to put your code?

Thank you so much for your help. there was space before <?php and after removing the space the error went off thanks again.

Thank you so much for your Replay. and i post the code on https://pastebin.com/
i dont know how to link it for you so i post it with the following title “php for custome.php @Brajesh”

hi Brajesh. Thank you so much for your help. your code is working, it is showing opposite gender after disabling the directory.

hello Brajesh how r u?
i created male and female member type using BP member types plugin; and there are two url for this directories https://ethiopianmeet.com/members/type/female and https://ethiopianmeet.com/members/type/male and like you said i put the code on plugin section custome.php; the problem is when anyone login they see the total list of members not specific opposite gender. when manualy i search t this two members directory url they show the male and female members? how can i make it work automaticaly show oposite genders?